Old-Fashioned Banana Pudding Recipe with Homemade Custard and Meringue

Old-Fashioned Banana Pudding
There are some desserts that never lose their place at the table, and Old-Fashioned Banana Pudding is one of them. It is simple, comforting, and full of the kind of homemade charm that feels just as right for Sunday dinner as it does for holidays, potlucks, and family get-togethers. With layers of vanilla wafers, fresh sliced bananas, silky homemade pudding, and a fluffy golden meringue on top, this is the kind of dessert that brings both nostalgia and comfort in every bite.
What makes this version so special is that it is made the traditional way, with a cooked custard-style pudding rather than instant mix. That extra step gives it a richer flavor and a softer, creamier texture that makes the whole dessert feel more homemade and memorable. Add the lightly browned meringue on top, and it becomes the kind of classic Southern dessert that always gets attention.
This is the sort of recipe that feels like it belongs in a handwritten recipe box, passed down and brought out again and again.
Why I Love This Recipe
What I love most about old-fashioned banana pudding is how comforting it feels. It is not flashy, but it always delivers. The bananas soften into the pudding, the wafers absorb just enough moisture to become cake-like, and the creamy filling holds everything together in the most delicious way.
I also love that this recipe includes meringue. That golden topping makes the dessert feel extra special and gives it a more classic, old-school finish that so many people remember from family tables and church suppers.
Another reason this recipe stands out is that it tastes wonderful both warm and chilled. That makes it flexible, familiar, and perfect for just about any occasion when you want something sweet and homemade.
Ingredients
For the pudding
- 4 fresh bananas, peeled and sliced
- Vanilla wafers
- 3/4 cup sugar
- 1/4 teaspoon salt
- 1/4 cup all-purpose flour
- 3 cups PET milk
- 4 egg yolks
- Pat of butter
- 1 teaspoon vanilla flavoring
For the meringue
- 4 egg whites
- 1/2 cup sugar
- 1 teaspoon vanilla flavoring
- Pinch of cream of tartar
Swaps and Notes
Fresh bananas are essential here, and you want them ripe but not overly soft. They should be sweet and slice cleanly so they hold their shape in the pudding.
Vanilla wafers are the classic choice and give banana pudding its signature texture and flavor. As they sit with the custard, they soften beautifully and become one of the best parts of the dessert.
Using cooked pudding instead of a shortcut mix gives this recipe a much more traditional flavor. It takes a little more attention, but the payoff is worth it.
The meringue adds a beautiful finish, but it also gives the dessert that true old-fashioned character. Broiling it just until golden creates a lovely contrast to the creamy pudding underneath.
How to Make Old-Fashioned Banana Pudding
1. Layer the bananas and wafers
Slice the bananas into a medium bowl. In a 2-quart casserole dish, begin layering the vanilla wafers and sliced bananas.
2. Make the pudding
In a saucepan on the stove, whisk together the sugar, salt, flour, egg yolks, butter, and milk.
Cook over medium heat, whisking continuously for about 8 minutes, or until the mixture thickens into a smooth pudding.
3. Add the vanilla
Remove the pudding from the heat and stir in the vanilla flavoring. Let it cool slightly.
4. Build the pudding layers
Pour some of the pudding over the banana and wafer layers in the casserole dish. Continue layering wafers, bananas, and pudding until everything is used, finishing with pudding on top.
5. Make the meringue
In a clean bowl, beat the egg whites and pinch of cream of tartar on high speed until stiff peaks form.
Add the sugar and vanilla flavoring, then continue beating until the mixture is glossy and well combined.
6. Top and broil
Spread the meringue over the pudding, making sure it reaches the edges.
Broil until the meringue is golden brown, about 3 minutes. Watch it closely so it does not burn.
7. Serve
Serve warm or let it cool and chill before serving, depending on your preference.
Tips for Success
Whisk the pudding constantly while it cooks so it stays smooth and thickens evenly. This is the key to getting that classic creamy texture without lumps.
Let the pudding cool just a little before layering so it does not immediately break down the bananas too much, but do not wait so long that it becomes hard to spread.
When making the meringue, be sure your bowl is clean and dry. That helps the egg whites whip up properly and hold their volume.
Watch the meringue very carefully under the broiler. It can go from golden to too dark very quickly.
Serving Suggestions and Pairings
Old-Fashioned Banana Pudding is wonderful all on its own, but it is especially at home on a Southern-style dessert table with other comforting classics. It works beautifully after a big family meal, holiday dinner, or potluck spread.
If you love banana desserts, This Big Family Banana Pudding Is My Favorite Classic Dessert to Feed a Crowd is another must-save version for larger gatherings.
For another great way to use ripe bananas, This Chocolate Chip Banana Bread Is My Favorite Way to Use Up Overripe Bananas makes a cozy companion for any homemade dessert collection.
If you want an easy chilled dessert for another occasion, This No-Bake Oreo Cream Pie Is My Favorite Quick Dessert Hack is always a crowd-pleaser.
And for a dessert table with a little variety, These Pecan Pie Bars Are My Favorite Make-Ahead Holiday Dessert add another rich, classic option.
Nutritional Information Per Serving
Estimated per serving, based on 10 servings:
- Calories: 280
- Carbohydrates: 44g
- Protein: 5g
- Fat: 9g
- Saturated Fat: 3g
- Cholesterol: 85mg
- Sodium: 170mg
- Fiber: 1g
- Sugar: 31g
Nutritional values are approximate and may vary depending on the wafers and milk used.
Storage and Leftover Tips
Store leftover banana pudding covered in the refrigerator for up to 3 days. Because of the bananas and meringue, it is best enjoyed within the first couple of days for the best texture.
If you prefer it chilled, let it cool fully before refrigerating. The flavors settle in nicely as it rests.
This dessert is best assembled and served fairly close to serving time if you want the wafers to keep a little structure, though many people love it even more once everything has softened together.
More Recipes You Will Love
If you enjoyed this Old-Fashioned Banana Pudding, here are a few more desserts to try:
- This Big Family Banana Pudding Is My Favorite Classic Dessert to Feed a Crowd
- This Chocolate Chip Banana Bread Is My Favorite Way to Use Up Overripe Bananas
- This No-Bake Oreo Cream Pie Is My Favorite Quick Dessert Hack
- These Pecan Pie Bars Are My Favorite Make-Ahead Holiday Dessert
- These Chocolate Chip Cookie Bites Are My Favorite Little Treat to Bake Anytime
Final Thoughts
Old-Fashioned Banana Pudding is one of those timeless desserts that never really needs improving. It is creamy, sweet, layered with comfort, and topped with that beautiful golden meringue that makes it feel extra special.
Whether you serve it warm or chilled, for a holiday or an everyday family meal, this is the kind of recipe that keeps traditions alive one spoonful at a time.



